Version of 12 November 2026
Privacy
Gaymocracy is a place where being recognised can matter a lot. So we ask for very little, show even less, and say plainly what we keep. This page describes what the city really does today.
Who runs it
Gaymocracy is run by Calenzy Pte. Ltd., 160 Robinson Road, Singapore 068914. For anything about your data, write to hello@gaymocracy.com.
What we keep about you
- Your nickname and your look. Other citizens see them.
- Your email address. Only to confirm your account, to let you choose a new password, and to answer you. No other citizen ever sees it.
- Your password, in a scrambled form that we cannot read back.
- That you confirmed being 18 or older and accepted the charter, with the date.
- Your friends, the citizens you blocked, and the events you said you would attend.
- Reports. When someone reports a citizen, we keep the report, the reason, and the reported citizen's last public messages in that room, so a moderator can decide. We also keep what the moderator decided, and why.
What we do not keep
- No real name, no photo, no address, no phone number. We never ask for them.
- Nothing about your orientation, identity or relationships. There is no field for it.
- No public chat. What is said in a room is shown to the people there and then gone. The only exception is the few lines attached to a report.
- No record of where you walked. Your place in a room exists only while you are in it.
- No advertising, no trackers, no analytics from other companies. Even the fonts come from our own server.
- Not your location. We do not show or store your city or country. To stop abuse, we count sign-ups and sign-ins per internet address for a short time, in a scrambled form we cannot turn back into the address.
Who sees what
- Citizens in the same room see your nickname, your look, where you stand and what you say there.
- Your friends also see whether you are in the city and in which place, so they can join you.
- Someone you blocked, or who blocked you, no longer sees you at all, and you no longer see them.
- Moderators see reports and the messages attached to them. They do not see your email.
- Nobody else. We do not sell or share your data.
Where it is kept, and who helps us
- The city runs on one server in Singapore, rented from HostHatch. The data is on that server.
- Our emails to you (confirmation, new password) are sent through Amazon Web Services in Singapore, which therefore handles your email address and those messages.
- A copy of the data is saved every night on the same server and kept for 7 days.
How long
- We keep your account until you delete it.
- When you delete it, your email, your password, your consents, your friends, your blocks and your event places are removed at once, and your nickname becomes free. The nightly copies lose them within 7 days.
- Reports about a citizen and the moderators' decisions stay, without the email, so that repeated problems can be seen. Write to us if you want them removed.
Your choices
- Delete your account yourself, at any time, from the welcome screen.
- Ask us for a copy of what we hold about you, for a correction, or for deletion: hello@gaymocracy.com. We answer within 30 days.
- If you live in a country with a data protection authority, you can also complain to it.
Cookies
One cookie keeps you signed in, for up to 30 days. Your browser also remembers your graphics setting. There is nothing else, so there is no cookie banner.
Adults only
Gaymocracy is for people aged 18 or older. Accounts that seem to belong to minors are closed.
Changes
When this page changes, the date at the top changes.